ATEMM(A Typical Egoistic Malay Man)

When I was living in Malaysia,almost everyday I spent my evening at skate park.There,me and my friends usually chatting and gossiping,like women loves to do,talking about cupidity--how attractive guys,and of course,we girls love to talk about boys.

One day,me and my boyfriend at that time(now ex,but still a best friend) hanging around while watching others rolling with piece of wood and 4 small roller--the skate.And finally I've noticed--that I'm the only one girl taking a Malay man as boyfriend.

Myra with her boyfriend,an Indian(not from rubber estate) Roger,Suhana with her boyfriend Jay,a Chinese,Sasha with her Eurasian(woo!) Derek,and Fida with her boyfriend,Ming,also a Chinese.

I'm joked,"technically he is not Malay.He is Javanese.He told me the word "Melayu" means refugees",I told everyone on that day.

Now guys,especially Malay,have you wonder,how many Malay girls nowadays like to be captivated with non-Malay boys?What makes non-Malay far more better than Malay?

Now,what is ATEMM.ATEMM is an acronym stands for A-Typical-Egoistic-Malay-Man.ATEMM main character is:-

1.Uncontrolable ego.
2.Love to brag,but fail to proof.
3.Never be romantic.
4.Stupid,but hate his girl to be clever than him.
5.Self-centered,never think his girl feelings.
6.Love to decide for his girl.
7.Power monger,but don't know how to use it,the right way.
8.Love to control everything,but eventually fails to control.
9.Pretend to be "macho",but actually annoying.
10.Never say sorry if mistakes occured.

Now,if I gather all Malay men today,and I throw 10 stones from above,9 out of 10 men being hitted by stone were ATEMM.

Yesterday on FOB there are a serious debate about Holier than Thou,today,this Holier than Thou person bragged about his achievement,which actually never impressed me,at all.

Guys,aren't you aware right now,Chinese and Indian guys are captivated Malay girls now?Are your "stupid ego" being challenged now,yet?

So,perhaps this is things that I should tell you guys,before all of you Malay men will never be Malay girls choice.Before Banglas or Indons reaping up Malay girls.

1.Be considerable.Be more wiser and understand that women loves to be cared and loved.
2.Don't brag.Let what that you good at been noticed by girls.
3.Be more romantic.How many of Malay men will push himself to write a poem for his girlfriend.My friend Sue is very lucky to meet Nami the Poet.
4.Be clever,if you don't like your girl to be clever than you.
5.If your girl are clever than you,then you have to accept the fact that you're not.
6.Stop deciding everything for your girl.Your girl is not a cleaning vacuum for you to control.
7.Even totalitarian dictator like Adolf Hitler love and care about his Eva Braun.Treat us as a lover,not an Indon maid.
8.Be "Argentinian macho",ego with care,not ego with stupid pride.
9.Always say sorry if mistakes occured.
10.We girls are not your slaves.We are your lovers.

It's nothing wrong to be ego.Ego is macho,but these nonsense ego,it's make we,Malay girls sick upon you all.